I did a search on Google India when I started this post and abandoned it when I saw
Designer lifestyle – 26,400.000
Designer life coaching – 14.400,000
Designer Sarees – 8,69,000
Designer Sarees pic – 22,80,000
I also spent some time finding a coach to air these ideas. I was not successful because I had modelled my theory on my understanding of two of my role models who could be life coaches. One was over 100 years when he died (he ran out ot work) and the other is 113 years and still going strong. So all that search amounted to nothing?
Not really because now I know that Indians are slightly more interested in design than designer sarees and designer jewllery. The last time they were looking for somebody to head the national centre for design they approached one of my neighbours who dabble in jewellery design
I turned my attention to the Times of India and the interview with Malcolm Gladwell. He says we are information rich and theory poor. If the dogs can ‘see’, what they ‘see’ will be worth a look.
My search had to be abandoned because most theories, in the long run have not even helped the proponents other than getting some flea span of attention.
Many gods die very young! At my age, I cannot afford to be taken for many more rides.
Why don’t you stop theorising and get to the issue? Do you have a set of principles? Where do we begin?
Get ready for some mental jugglery.
- We need to make a SHIFT
- We need to approach Potential ,Performance, the WHY and How of the potential performance gap, simultaneously
- We need to take an informed position and be our SELF
- We need some simple metrics to be certain that we are on the PATH
Well that is juggling with too many balls at the same time?
It is now established that juggling improves your intelligence. More the balls, bettter it is. Most of us can manage just one or two at the same time.
Moreover, we have the four wheels, the engine (self) and the driver in place to begin the journey.
Wow. It is a DIY Manual !
Yes, it is.
It is another day.
Which dog are you talking about? There are 162 dogs, the slum dog type, in our gated community and another 36 luckier (?) ones owned by dog lovers who have taken permission from the management committee of the community headed by an animal rights activist.The dialogue happens after our morning walk. There is this one dog which seeks us out and joins our company on a regular basis.
Of the 162 dogs why is it that this one finds it worthwhile to join us?
It knows that you are a recruitment manager who knows the difference between dog-ness and human-ness! It sniffs the difference between the rest of us and the one who knows what it is to be human!
Wow. That’s an idea. Dogs could be used in recruitment. It would be more effective than most of our metrics. Perhaps I could patent the idea and leave my job to the dogs!
Well it is coming to that very soon. There are agencies that teach us to mimic animals or the rest of nature as if they hold the key to human-ness?
- Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery
- It is such a headache to think, know, understand
But mimicry is a kind of pathetic humour that comes out of help – less – ness. When we don’t have the original we make do with copies.
When we hear the next guru talking of inner ecology, take it that the inner desertification (or interior decoration?) is complete!
What does this dog, the other dogs and the pet dogs see?
Well dogs, as a community, seem to believe in the steady state theory since at the last count too we had around 160 dogs. They know what dog-ness is all about.With every one out of three of us likely to get cancer, one in ten to get a heart attack and with all the other odds taken together shows that dogs are healthier than humans. We live a dog’s life !
Somebody I knew was chased by a pack of dogs on a beach. He had no option but to get into the water. The dogs stood howling on the shore and were chased away by his friends. He lived for another six months and took the exit route on his own.The dogs knew, it seems.
Well what does this ‘special dog’ in the visual see?
This dog sees the two paths. It sees that most of what we see as progress is a fall and together we are heading in the wrong direction. It also sees the path that we should take, the path of human-ness, continuous improvement, real progress.
It would probably not join us if we start imitating the other 161 dogs!
This dog knows. Most facts are stranger than fiction.
The Pipers of Hamlin, Wall street.
We are back at it again with the special dog in company.
The master said, be the child. Where on earth are the children? They have vanished with the Pipers from Wall Street!
The children are so ‘well informed’ these days that I feel myself an ignoramus. They know what is in and what is out and I am certainly out by those standards.
How do you take an ‘informed position’ and be my SELF? How can I be my SELF when there is such a well- intentioned, charity driven, messianic attack on our collective SELF, the most threatened and endangered entity in our current context.
I am not complete in my SELF without a fan following (my twitter count of followers is zilch) or following somebody in sincere flattery.
Is there a gold standard certification in these things? I see that every guru of the day, self – certifies his /her claims ! Most of them are younger than me, never been married, never raised any children.Another set of pipers ?
I am afraid I would prefer not to follow anybody and drive away potential disciplies who would rob me of my silence.
Well in that case you can not be a GURU.
How long will gold be the standard? When everything else is of no value can gold have any value? If everybody does a Gandhi or Thoreau what happens to the economy?
You have’nt cotributed much to the economy. You are taking more than what you give to it. You have not been ill for a long long time which means you are contributing to the recession. You dont use any cosmetics. How will the economy recover ?
Are we getting to the age of The Descent of Money ?
The ‘piped music’ is so enchanting that i don’t want to unplug and listen to my SELF which is under attack from all the four directions, from the bottom and the top. 24x7x 720. Perhaps what we consider music is noise which has silenced the silence, the real music from a dog’s perspective.
We wonder where all the children have disappeared. They have lost their innocence and with it the wise men too have vanished. The Pipers have been doing a very good.
Look at all the exercise freaks. They are all plugged in, connected, wired to their i-pods, i-phones, i-touch, i-book, i-spouses. It is a connected world ! There is very little else to be connected and be taken over by the machines. Sci-fi has become the reality.
In spite of all the stretching many of my one time friends vanished in their forties.
The problem can be abstracted as: i > I or self> SELF
We cannot solve the puzzle without a decision compass which would help us to find the directions and fix our position. The four directions are the four P balls that we juggle around – Potential, Performance/metrics, Perfection and Psychodynamics (Continual renewal/ Continual Learning/ Continuous Improvement, Kaizen, whatever you choose to call this wheel of the car / the learning engine)
What is a learning engine?
A learning engines improves on its pervious performance. II feeds itself on waste. If is a fusion engine. There is no cost for learning. The ROI is always positive.
I hope you will stop with the four balls!
I was about to pull out more smaller balls from each of the four big balls
That is enough for the day. Time for a break.
(B…s to you. I could almost hear it)
The next day:
What is the gap between self and SELF?
This is the space between the two paths, what we call the blue ocean space, the solution space or the problem space depending on which position one takes. This represents the unrealised potential, the gap between best of individual realisation of potential to the best of the collective potential of the human.
Example: PCD lived for > 100 years while the life expectancy for males in this context was 72, the normality of the time. The potential / performance gap is 28 years if we just take this one dimension. To make it simple we adon’t take into account the quality of life of the masses against the quality of life that PCD enjoyed or any of his other achievements.
If we consider the case of SRC, 113, who is still working and hopes to work for more years, we get an idea of what potential is and where the masses are! We cannot really fix an upper limit to potential but we can chart out the broad contours of the direction of the path.
I get a rough idea of the direction that we are talking about.
As we move forward we will be able to see what is beyond the next bend on the road.
The visual also suggests that a good part of our behaviour is sub-animal!
This is our shadow side, the porn that greases the web engine, the medicines, drugs, cosmetics, the years wasted in asylums, prisons, lives lost in conflicts, suicides, terrorism, so on and so forth. Unrealised potential is the root cause of all our problems.
When we say be myself, what we mean is be my true SELF as distinct from what we have come to believe as dictated by the noise around us.
WHY this gap exists and HOW to bridge it or narrow it are the other two balls.
It is in relation to these four directions that one can fix the position just as a compass or GPS would deliver what they are designed to.
There are two kinds of positions as in the case of the lighthouse and the sailing vessel, the invariant and the variant. The ship has to change course in relation to the lighthouse.
Be more specific?
As a surgeon I take the position that I am a professional which means I have a set of competencies which I practice in a specific domain which I continue to perfect over a life-time. I am also bound by a code of behaviour which expects me to hold my client’s well-being as my overriding principle which provides the context in which my performance becomes measurable. The standards are the most challenging. In case of non-delivery, the surgeon will not be able to go scot-free as the Pipers of Hamlin, Wall Street.
I hope you see the invariant postion and the variant postions in the journey of the professional. The invariant is, come what may, even at the cost of my life,I would remain a professional. it is a do or die postion. The variant is as I move ahead on the journey I continue to improve my competencise and scale higher and higher levels of perfection.
It is time we pull out the balls within balls. The journey from our animal self (i) to the human (I) begins here.
You are a pain. Enough for the day
I believe in the PIA theory of motivation.
Good day, JM
My Inglish style sheet says, “break the container and get the content”. What Sanskrit is to Prakrit, Inglish is to English.
Hope you too see what the dog sees or ‘god’ sees the big picture. The headwind is strong. It is better for a take off than sailing.